...A Sex-Fantastic Erotic

The Erotic Power of Food...

"Eat for Enhanced Sexual Pleasure"... the erotic power of food has been celebrated for centuries. Casanova was said to share oysters with his paramours to whet their sexual appetites. Greek and Roman cultures enjoyed a parade of ripe fruits and exotic dishes before engaging in sensual pleasures. It has even been said that a delicious meal is the quickest way to a man (or woman's) heart. After all, what courtship would be complete without a romantic dinner? The quality of our diet has a great deal to do with the quality of our sex. Many nutritious foods can stir libido, revive sexual function and enhance overall health, especially when served up in a sensual way.

Ingredients for "Gourmet Love"

Although some foods arouse, others can impair sexual function. Fried fare and rich cream sauces can leave us feeling more sluggish than sexy. What's more, excessive sugar, salt, saturated fat and highly processed foods are linked to frigidity, difficulty reaching orgasm and lack of interest in sex. Cutting back on these foods will help revive and preserve sexual vitality and enhance overall well-being. It's also a good idea to limit consumption of alcohol and coffee, and to skip tobacco altogether. These "pleasure drugs" can dampen sexual desire and leech beneficial nutrients vital to our sexual health. The rich, delicious decadence known as chocolate contains phenylalanine, an amino acid that raises the body's endorphins, our natural antidepressants. Enjoyed in moderation, a few morsels can lift libido, providing a tantalizing prelude to sex.

The Erotic Element

Prepare a dinner for two with your beloved. (How about cooking in the nude for some added spice?), dim the lights and play music that sets the right mood, take turns feeding each other in creative ways.(Offer to nibble ripe raspberries from your lover's chest.) and finish with an arousing massage or a warm bubble bath.

..."The erotic elements are used to draw a parallel between passion, total involvement and presence encountered during sexual relationships, wear something sexy, treat each course as an overture to lovemaking"...

Having a fantasy about a particular sexual practice or activity does not mean that a person actually wishes to engage in that behavior or that he/she would enjoy the behavior. While fantasy may enhance actual sexual practices, it should not be assumed that a fantasized behavior represents an unconscious desire. Thus, some women fantasize about being overpowered or even raped by a man, but this does not mean they actually want to be raped. Similarly, some men fantasize about multiple sexual partners, but would find it emotionally difficult to maintain several simultaneous relationships. In recent years, there has been a greater openness about fantasy and a greater recognition of how common this behavior is for both men and women. While fantasy often is treated as an individual behavior, partners sometimes "act out" shared fantasies to enhance their enjoyment of sex.

Men's Fantasies

Guys...our sexual dreams, our desires. The inner drives that no matter how much we try and suppress them, no matter how old we get, they creep into our thoughts. We think about them when we make love. We see women or men and imagine them doing these wild and wonderful, forbidden acts for our pleasure. We feel guilty about them. We feel sheepish. Whether we are 17 or 57, the images, the imagined feelings, whether it is a beautiful leggy woman modeling stiletto heels and masturbating herself with the tip of a stiletto heel, or having two women at once, or  your favorite fantasy, it dominates our sexual odyssey in our heads daily and has for years.

Men often look at women having sex and subconsciously think "poor little women, they are so fragile and weak, they need a big man like me to protect them" . Men love to be in control and to know what's going on. Watching two women is like a sneak peak inside all those pajama parties you heard girls had in high school. All of a sudden, men know what two girls do when they are alone: they kiss and touch each other.

Women's Fantasies

What's your most erotic sex fantasy? Is it having sex with two guys who devote themselves to giving you absolute pleasure? Is it a luscious lesbian encounter where she licks you hard? Is it openly fucking a complete stranger, or secretly fucking your closest friend? Sexual fantasies often entail mental scenarios involving persons other than one's regular partner and include sexual activities considered culturally inappropriate or unacceptable. People vary considerably in their ability to fantasize and in their enjoyment of this behavior. Fantasies may supplant reality for some or may serve as a poor substitute of sexual reality for others. Fantasies are often triggered by external stimuli, such as an attractive stranger or an erotic picture, movie, or story.

How does the erotic atmosphere?

The entrance to a world of sensual eroticism, the pure beauthy of the male and female... Sexual excitement causes all sorts of exotic odors from the body to be emitted from skin, breath and genitals, and these can be reinforced by the use of essential oils. For thousands of years lovers have rubbed scented oils on each other's naked bodies because a mixture of these smells is not only a sheer delight to the nose, but it is also overpoweringly arousing for the couple.

Watching oil glisten on bare skin, as you touch it and let loving energy flow from your hands into your beloved during massage, is quite similar to the pleasures of making love, even if sexual intercourse is not involved. The intimacy of such scented body-contact is an ideal avenue for enjoying the benefits of aromatherapy.

Although there are many aromas that can provide us with this secret sexual pleasure, four of them have especially powerful aphrodisiac properties.

• Rose
• Jasmine
• Neroli
• Sandalwood

The colours of the sky, the warm, the mellow and easy going mood, gread food create the perfect prelude for a fantastic intimate erotic encounter.

Therapists have found that fantasy can be useful in helping patients overcome sexual problems. With the help of a therapist, the individual may, through fantasy, confront the fearful stages of intimacy and lovemaking and reduce or eliminate those fears and apprehensions.