The Most Erotical Men's Places

Do you know what it takes to please a man in bed? Their needs are simple, and once you master the basics, you'll delight your lover always...a good point to start getting really erotic!. His penis isn't the only part of his body that experiences the erotic pleasure. Learn if he likes to have his nipples, scrotum, earlobes, feet, or other parts of his body touched.

Here's one sample itinerary for hitting all the hot spots on your tour. Start by leaning his penis against his belly...slide your fingers from the glans along the raphe, down to the scrotum. Lightly drag your fingernails upward, from the base of the scrotum toward the head of the penis. Gently roll his testicles in your palm. Fiddle with the hardened seminal vesicles.

If you do like to talk, now would be a good time to say something admiring. Then, proceed to the male G-spot. Pressing it gently with the thumb for six seconds at a time enhances a man's reproductive health and makes him twitchy with desire.

Discover all His Erogenous Zones

Contrary to popular belief men have as many erogenous zones as women do. Many think it's just the penis, testicles and anus that make up his sexuality and get him going, but let your fingers and lips do the exploring as you discover that there's so much more to making your man moan with pleasure.

His Ears:

Bundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and tongue, and then blow lightly. Don't be shy about making noise while you're lingering there, the sound of your breath and moans is a huge turn-on for most men.

His Lips:

It is very unlikely that a man will not enjoy kissing his partner. The more you kiss the better. Lips are sensitive and for men it is easy to get him aroused just from kissing. Kissing lets him know that there is more "good stuff" ahead and that starts his mind fantasizing.

His Neck:

The neck is always a great place to turn on your partner. There are several things to keep in mind here, most importantly controlling yourself. Try to have a moist mouth, but don't slobber. Cover different areas of his neck with tender kisses, using the areas under/behind the ears for extra stimulation. Light nibbling and tugging usually work really well also. Start out soft and gentle; as he gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder to release his beast within.

His Scalp:

The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since he's probably not expecting you to give any attention to it, surprise him. Many men like to have a gentle head massage or scratching, so if you have nails, gently run your hands through his hair in circular motions while lightly scratching his scalp.

His Chest:

To many men, the chest is one of their favorite body parts. To appreciate it is to appreciate the man. Massage it and occasionally whisper how much you love how hard it is. Nipples are highly sensitive and should be sucked and nibbled on. Just remember to start out a little slower and work up to harder techniques.

His Inner Thighs:

Inner thighs are always a great place to turn your partner on, as they don't get touched much during every day life. Whether it is touching, kissing, licking, or nibbling, virtually everything you do around this area will feel good.

His Glans Head:

This is the pinnacle of stimulation for a man. The glans head is the purplish, mushroom shaped mass at the top of a man's penis. This is the most sensitive part of his body and concentrating on it is the easiest way to get him off. Men with foreskin have a more sensitive glans head and sometimes need to be handled more gently.

His Perineum:

The perineum is the area between the scrotum and the anus. There are a lot of nerve endings there and it is quite responsive to gentle fondling. For a erotic experience, try using a little artificial lubricant or massage oil. You may want to try vigorously massaging the perineum just prior to orgasm; this gives many men a rush of pleasure.

His Anus:

The Anus has a large number of nerve endings surrounding it and it is very sensitive. The proper stimulation of this area can heighten a man's pleasure. Please see the anal play section for more details.

His Scrotum:

The scrotum is the sack that holds the testicles. This is a very sensitive and very fragile part of a man's body. Applying too much pressure to the testicles will cause immense amounts of pain. This does not mean to stay away from them; it just means to be very gentle. To really get your man going, fondle his testicles gently in one hand. Even more erotic and far more appreciated is to lightly suck or lick the scrotum (try getting one or both testicles in your mouth and humming).

Some Tips...

Perform oral sex: For the majority of men, nothing is as satisfying as the intensity of pleasure they experience during fellation.

Take responsibility for your own orgasm: He's happiest in bed when he knows you enjoy sex as much as he does. So learn about your body and know what it takes to turn you on.

Communicate your desire: He won't know what feels good and what you love in bed unless you communicate. .

Let him see you nude:Men are turned on by the visual, so don't be bashful. Make love with the lights on, and remember that women tend to be far more critical about their bodies than men are.

Be inventive and experimental: Don't be afraid to try something new in bed, a new position, tantric sex, mutual masturbation. You may end up adding something great to your regular bedroom repertoire.

Follow his lead: If he kisses you in a special place or touches you a certain way, try doing the same back to him. Also get him to show you how he masturbates, and learn to do it for him just the way he likes.

Don't forget the sexy-erotic lingerie: Even girls who sleep in T-shirts will find wearing something red-hot once in a while is a guaranteed man-pleaser. Especially when combined with a slow striptease.

Share your erotic fantasies: Tell him yours, and invite him to share his with you. Take the fantasies to the next level and act them out if you're both comfortable doing that.

Let him know how turned on you are: Talk dirty and erotic to heighten his excitement and yours.

...Don't criticize your guy in bed. He's at his most vulnerable there, and words that are harsh or cavalier may be long remembered. If you do have a sex problem, address it when you're not in an intimate setting.