...Give Your Man an Erotic Massage!!!

The massage itself should be done bit by bit on the following parts of the body. You can try a number of techniques that are listed below and use your hands, your tongue (although if you are using essential oils don't use your tongue), a feather and even an ice cube!

-Feet: Start by gently massaging his feet, as much of the bodies tension will reside in his feet. Remember to play with each toe and also between the toes.

-Legs: Work your way up the legs one leg at a time pushing down gently into the muscles..."Moving up towards his bottom". Make sure that you keep contact with his body as much as possible and every now and then get some more massage oils to help lubricate the skin.

-Bottom: Move onto the bottom and gently knead and stroke all the bottom including the ass itself. Run your fingers lightly over the asshole, but resist the temptation to penetrate it. This will just build the anticipation and the eroticism of the massage.

-Lower Back: Move on to the lower back, bringing your hands together at the spine and then moving outwards. Also use circular motions to this area and go all the way to the sides of the hips and the bottom.

-Upper Back: Slowly move your way up the spine to the upper back. You may also want to gently blow and even lick at the back as well, to give him even more pleasure.

-Shoulders:Work the shoulders and gently knead them and roll them between your hands. Move your hands down in broad strokes to the back and bottom as well all the while keeping hand and body contact between you and your partner.

-Arms:Start by moving both hands down the arms across the triceps and down to the forearms. Try alternating between lying on him and then only having your hands touching him.

-Hands:Massage the hands paying special attention to each finger and the in between the fingers and then start moving back up the arms tot he shoulder and neck area.

-Neck: Work on his neck and hair and gently strokes and knead this area. Blow warm air on the he base of his neck between the hair line and the skin and this will cause goose bumps all over him!

Turn him over and uncover his entire erotic front body.....

...Don't worry if he isn't hard yet, we will come to that!!!

-Chest: In broad circular motions massage his chest lightly paying attention to his nipples and gently tweak them. If you are feeling very adventurous instead of using your hands, use your tongue to gently lick and nibble across his chest and up to his neck and ears. Don't bite, just lick and gently blow on the exposed skin.

-Stomach: Move down towards his stomach, but be careful not to put too much pressure on his stomach as this can hurt some guys. Rubs the stomach and lick and blow gently. By now he will probably have a raging hardon, but don't go straight to his balls. Instead run your hands into his crotch itself, avoiding the penis and balls for a while

Male Erotic Genital Massage

Look into your partner's eyes as you begin touching his or her genitals. Make sure the rapport you built at the beginning of the massage still exists; if it does not, try to reestablish it by slowing down and asking your partner a few questions about what he or she is experiencing. As you proceed with erotic genital massage, remember to use your free hand to tease the rest of your partner's body. Begin by applying some lubricant to the palm of your hands and rubbing it gently into the penis and testicles.

-Crotch:Massage all the skin between his legs, around his pubic area and hair and around his lower stomach and make sure he is really turned on.

Gently touch and caress his balls, with either your finger tips, your tongue or even a feather. Then slowly move toward his penis. You can do an enormous amount of things here such as gently massage the oil into the shaft and head, use your tongue or use a feather or an ice cube.

"Alternate between his crotch area and the rest of his stomach and chest, turning him on and teasing him slightly"

Male genital massage is guided by one main principle: slow down and stop or change what you are doing just before ejaculation becomes inevitable. Let your fingers run from the balls to the top of the cock head, swirl around there, then slide back down the other half and end back down at the balls. The movements should be swift and smooth, without bumping or stalling. By bringing your lover to the peak without allowing him to ejaculate, you prolong the erotic massage and help your lover have a more intense orgasm.

Let go of his testicles and bring your fingers together in a makeshift goose head formation. Very lightly, begin to stroke his erection with your fingers, running them all over his sensitive shaft and balls. You may wish to slip the pocket of your goose head handhold over the tip of his penis, letting it rest there for a few seconds.

-The penis:When you and he are ready move back down to his penis and masturbate him till he ejaculates. You can try any number of erotic techniques, from using your mouth, to kneading the head to giving him a blowjob. It is up to you and you will know his body the best!

The penis will probably start to emit its natural lubricant. (Pre-seminal fluid is nature's way of moistening the canal of the urethra so that the spermatozoa can swim more easily out of it; it also lubricates the head of the penis). Use the juice to lubricate the shaft. Sometimes, its musky smell can be an aromatic aphrodisiac for you both. If there is little or no pre-cum, don't be concerned. It is not a requirement, and it doesn't always appear at exactly the same time.

The End

At the end of the massage, lie down with him kissing and holding him in a sexy cocoon of love, warmth and after sex glow!

Some Tips...

-The Feather: Use a feather instead of your hands to massage and tickle his body and penis.

-The Ice cub: Use an ice cube gently on sections of his body

"If your partner doesn't seem to have a very firm erection, try using a cinnamon-based ointment which you can find at your local sex novelty store or acquire through a mail catalog. The slight burning sensation often causes the penis to become rock-hard. Adding a little dab to the testicles also helps. If you really want to do a number on him, slip a dollop of Ben-Gay on his balls and watch him go through the roof".